If the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results, then Christmas really takes the biscuit. Is it just me, but when you reach a certain age, don’t you just kind of think ‘Christmas, again? Really??’
Don’t get me wrong, I’m not a total Grinch. I mean, I used to love Christmas…. or at least I did the first 30 times! Like I used to love clubbing till 5 in the morning or wearing platform boots, but you grow out of these things. You mature. Your tastes become more refined. You move on. But Christmas won’t let you move on. Regardless of your age or your circumstances, Christmas demands to be observed, every year, for what has now become a two-month
From November onwards, it’s the same old Christmas songs you’ve been subjected to every year ad nauseum, ringing out from every public space. There’s no getting away from the countdown or the brainwashing to join the masses and start shopping for a meal that will take place in two months time. Every half-cooked Nigella impersonator is telling you how to disguise your brussel sprouts so they don’t taste vile – I mean honestly, is there any other veg that has built its entire career around one meal?!
But that’s just the food. The latest shopping frenzy to hit our shores, Black Friday, swiftly followed by Cyber Monday, only serve to remind you of the annual (vain) search to find vaguely novel gifts for the same people. If, according to the ‘desire theory’ of Jacques Lacan, our desires can never fully be satisfied, I think we can safely assume the ‘perfect gift’ does not exist. It’s just shit you got from the shop wrapped in sparkly paper. And anyone with kids (including inner children) will know that the wrapping inevitably ends up being more fun than what’s inside!
The pressure to create a saccharin, picture perfect, roasting chestnuts on an open fire kind of Christmas inevitably spoils the entire thing. Most people set themselves the unattainable goal of trying to re-create the magic and nostalgia of their own childhood memories, instead of breaking out of the mould and creating new traditions. On top of the emotional cost is the actual cost of the aptly named ‘silly season’. In Ireland, each houshold will spend approximately €1,400 this year – unlike the Dutch who will spend a rather sobering €211! (And as far as I can tell, they invented the whole thing with the original Sinterklaas – so when you get your credit card bill in January, blame the Dutch!)
And besides, when you’ve reached a certain age, if you really want something, you’ll buy it for yourself. Unless you’re a child, you’re hardly waiting for December to come so you can start dropping hints about that Swarovski watch you’ve had your eye on (oh, did I just say that out loud?!). I have enough stuff (although it would be great to have the time constantly available on my wrist, in crystal form) and so does everyone else in my family. I’d rather give to people who really need help this Christmas and just spend the holiday being greatful for what I have. Maybe the best way to
survive enjoy Christmas is to ditch the idea of a perfect day and try to have an enjoyable one instead.
Just to show that I’m not completely immune to the charms of the festive season, or averse to a new old Christmas song, here is a beautiful waltz from Lisa Hannigan. Merry Christmas everybody (again!)
4 thoughts on “It’s The Most Repetitive Time Of The Year”
Brilliant post, you’ve basically summed up how I feel about Christmas.
Thanks Suzanne – there are more of us!!
Well, yeah but no but yeah but no but yeah but no…Look, you’ve made me go all Vicki Pollard!
She’s behind you! Oh no she isn’t!!! What can I say, things tend to get a bit jaded when you’ve done them twelvty hundred times 🙂 Now, if there was snow….